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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-49426114605915060792013-04-15T11:21:00.000-07:002013-04-15T11:21:40.468-07:00Bad Girl<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Okay, it’s confession time… I ate ice cream yesterday.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I know, I know… not exactly W30 and my 2nd W30 starts again today… I had 8 days in and now I have zero days in. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If I look at it practically, it’s not really the end of the world. Everyone makes a misstep and the more important thing that the failure is how you recover from it. Whether you fall completely, laying in the dirt and flailing about, or whether you just get up, take it as a lesson and move on.</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I flailed about in the dirt yesterday. I ate about four spoonfuls of the ice cream and then decided I didn’t want anymore and put it away. And then I flailed around calling myself all sorts of names and berating what a weak and useless idiot I am. Of course being a weak and useless idiot requires punishment, so to punish myself, I ate the entire rest of the pint. </span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The worst part was that I knew exactly what it would do to me physically… It would cause me to crave more sugar, it would set me back in my quest for another 30 days of clean living and then, it would make me tired, lethargic and chemically stoned. I slept through four alarms this morning… My stomach was hard and distended and uncomfortable and I was starving. These are all things that I have grown to not miss about poor eating habits and while I was punishing myself for my misstep, I knew these were the consequences and I did it anyway.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The guilt and self-loathing that I felt this morning was equivalent to having committed some sort of catastrophic crime and I’m afraid someone is going to find out that I’m a fraud… </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I knew it, they’ll say! I knew you couldn’t do this long term! I knew that you were just putting on a show! Your ‘fringe’ (to steal my sisters word) way of eating is a sham and I knew you went home every night and ate candy and cookies and ICE CREAM!</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s not true… it’s not true, I’d have to say back… This was just a mistake… Everyone can’t be 100% all the time… it’s not possible… I did 40 days clean! I had half a glass of wine on my vacation and then started again the next day! ON MY VACATION! Everyone deserves a break when they make a mistake, I would say… </span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So how come when it’s me saying those loathsome things to myself, I don’t defend myself in the same way… instead of defending myself, I agree… yes, you are weak. Yes, you are a fraud! What made you think you would be strong enough to go against society and its prescribed eating habits? Why would you do this to yourself otherwise?</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Well, I know the answer… we all know the answer if we look deep inside ourselves… </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My answer is that I’m terrified. I’m very happy to eat healthy and I love the results… my skin is amazing, I sleep well, my mood is stable and positive and I’m in a club of people that appreciate that kind of effort. And the physical side effects of treating my body nicely are that I’m losing weight and things are re-adjusting in my body… I’m close to having to go down another pant size and now I’m sabotaging myself because I’m terrified. The things I’m terrified of are too difficult to write here, so I won’t… I think it’s enough that I’ve opened my wounds this much today… I just know that the things I’m terrified of are real, but in order to move forward in life, I’m going to have to find a way to live in peace with them… </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So today I will start new and I will get up out of the dirt and stop flailing about. I will take this as a lesson instead of a crime… I will try and quiet the voice that is calling me a bad girl in the back of my head and start reminding myself that I have abnormally beautiful skin, strong legs, a great laugh and that terrified or not, I refuse to wallow in the not so praise worthy parts of myself… and sabotaging to prevent the fear doesn’t work… I know that because less than 18 hours after the sabotage, I’m no less terrified so I’ll just have to figure out something else!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span>P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-74873241539388115532013-03-27T11:46:00.000-07:002013-03-27T12:00:05.716-07:00Bring on the Haters!<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #134f5c;"><strong>You’re late!</strong></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I went to the gym this morning… It took me six minutes of laying in bed and debating with myself but I eventually got up and went. I dilly dallied getting my clothes on and forgot to put my gym bag together last night so I only left the house at 4:55. I sped over the bridge and careened into the parking lot at 5:03 only to find that every other 5am gymgoer was standing outside. I got out of my car thinking that maybe they were waiting for some sort of special event bus to come and pick them up and that I would just slip past them into the building. Ya, no. The girl that opens the gym ended up coming at 5:28… 28 min late! It was damn cold outside and waiting outside for 30 min to do half a workout was a bit of a slap in the face.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Now, do I wish I’d stayed in bed? No. That’s a good sign, since normally I would say yes, had I known that this would happen, I would have just slept in.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What I realized as I was doing my 28 min on the elliptical was that this has stopped being ‘kill you hard’. I ramped up the resistance and crossramp on the thing for the 2nd half of my workout so that I wasn’t just coasting along, but I wasn’t counting down every second as wanting to vomit or die… that’s a good sign… right? I recovered quicker and felt better than any other day I’ve been to the gym in the last two weeks so I was very happy. Altho I would have been happier if I could have gone and treadmilled for a few min.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The one good thing about getting locked out of the gym at 5am is that because I chose to get out of bed this morning, chose to wait to get into the gym and then chose to work out as hard as I could for that measly 28 min, I felt part of a club. I chatted with the guys (cause I was the only girl there) and we commiserated about getting out of bed at that time, why we had to leave at a certain time (some of us have the science of am workouts down to the minute) and why this was ‘so stupid’. I missed being a part of a community like that. It’s a special group of people (my sister included.. of course it’s special!) who get up when everyone else is still snuggling and go put some sweat on the machines. I always liked being part of that group of people… and now I’m part of it again… It gives me a little bump up in drive and determination!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So it seems that my muscle memory for working out is coming back and with it, it’s bringing memories of other things. Like people being assholes about my personal changes. Now, I realize and learned this lesson many years ago that when YOU make changes, it’s your responsibility to help other people adapt. That seems weird to say right? Why do you have to manage other people’s reactions? Because it’s in your own best interest. When you make any sort of massive change, it rocks the boat of your world and those waves affect people around you. Normally I would say that everyone can deal with their own reactions to things outside their control but I know from experience that unless you want to just wash your life of all your friends and family that are feeling uncomfortable with the changes you’re making, you need to do a little management.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Of course by managing other people’s interaction with you, that doesn’t mean stop doing something for yourself because it makes others feel uncomfortable. But it does mean that you can help them adapt by adapting your own behavior to make the change less difficult for loved ones to deal with.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For instance, let’s pretend you’re getting married and your single friends are having a hard time dealing with it. You can help yourself by managing how the change is being presented. You can book girls nights, make sure that wedding talk doesn’t monopolize every single conversation and invite them to participate in a way that is both helpful to you and fulfilling for them etc… You’re not going to NOT get married because your single friends are upset but you can manage the change to make life easier for everyone, including yourself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Now, I’m not getting married, but the changes I’m making in my own life are starting to affect the people in my circle. I’m getting a lot of negativity and pushback from people I would have expected to be some of the biggest cheerleaders. And I’ve been declared un-fun for declining to go for cake and cookies and bottles of wine and beer. I’m still a lot of fun if you ask me but the ‘club’ I used to belong to (as opposed to the sports club I now belong to) is being shaken up. The security and security blanket of my participation being removed is rocking the boat big time!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">People have other people in their lives for various reasons. Oftentimes it works for both parties. When one party changes the pieces around, the other party has now had a component of their life changed and sometimes removed. Often people do get over it in time and the change takes hold and the relationship evolves to continue to reward both parties.....but in reality, if you have friends who saw you only as a junk food eating, wine drinking, lazing about participant who potentially made them feel OK about that part of their own personality, it's possible that they will go elsewhere to fill their need for that. The part about managing this is the difficult thing. I don’t want to scrub clean my small circle of friends right off the bat without allowing a chance for the change to take hold and the relationship to evolve, so I will try to help them become more comfortable with the new me. What I will not do is work diligently on myself all the while consciously helping them adapt only to continue to get beaten up for it. A time will come when decisions have to be made about how people will fit into my new life. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There are few things I count on in life more than my relationship with my sister. I sent her a portion of this post that sounded like it was written by someone for whom English is their third language. She understood what I was trying to say and was able to put it into words. It’s incredibly comforting for me to know that she’s been down this road… I’ve been down this road in the past too, but I was young then and things important then are certainly not important now. She knows the hurdles and boulders that will be in my path and even tho I know I’m equipped to deal with them, having travelled this path before, she walked it more recently. I’m incredibly thankful for having someone in the world that can make my own thoughts sound coherent and who will cheer me on for every life circumstance, regardless if it potentially makes her feel uncomfortable for a minute. And I do the same for her!</span><br />
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<br />P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-61354108344874799152013-03-26T15:04:00.000-07:002013-03-26T15:04:54.857-07:00No FanFare?<strong><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Where’s my parade?</span></strong><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yesterday was Day 30 of my 1st Whole 30. I’m not sure what I expected? A parade I guess… or a big pat on the back for doing something ‘so amazing’ as has been mentioned by my work friends on numerous occasions. But it’s not amazing really. In the grand scheme of all the crap that I’ve dealt with in the last few years, this was no amazing feat of anything. This was a month of doing what felt right and natural and what I should have been doing all along. I know that processed food isn’t good for you. I know that dairy makes me itchy and additives, sodium, and all the wrong kinds of fat make me bloated, uncomfortable and well… fat. It was just a matter of getting my mind around the fact that I deserved better dammit! That I didn’t have to live in my old life anymore and that no one but me made decisions for me. Once I had that figured out (right before the W30 started), I realized I could easily do whatever I wanted to. So I guess that’s why there was no parade… no fan fare for finishing… because it’s not finished. You’re not expected to (or encouraged to) spend every day for the rest of your life on the W30. As they say, it’s not called W365 for a reason. However, I believe that for now, this is where I belong. Eventually something worth it will come along and I will indulge in something off plan but for now, I expect nothing will be worth it when considered in contrast to how I feel being in charge of my own everything!</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Moderator or Abstainer?</span></strong><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I just read on the Happiness Project about two styles of people… moderators (those who can have ‘some, sometimes’) and abstainers (those who are better at an all or nothing approach). I’m a sure fire, all or nothing abstainer! I don’t do well with ‘some, sometimes’… because ‘some, sometimes’ turns into lots all the time. It’s true, it would probably be more strong of me to learn how to manage myself so that I could have ‘some, sometimes’, but as I say to people who wonder why I don’t only eat organic if I’m so ‘worried about my health’… I can only do so much… I’m not a saint and I can’t do everything perfect so I’m going to do the best I can. And the best for now is recognizing that I’m not good at moderation and an all or nothing approach is certainly the wise choice for me!</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">What’s Next?</span></strong><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Well, more of the same really. I have a commitment till April 3 to stay strictly on the W30 program. April 4-7th I’m going away on a teeny tiny vacation. All our food is planned for and it’s all W30 approved but I will probably consume some wine with dinner and some Bailey’s with my morning coffee, so even tho I’d like to go a full 60 days stoppage free, as I said above, I can only do what I can do and since I haven’t been anywhere but work and home since the end of December, it’s not reasonable to expect to not indulge a bit.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So April 8 begins the 2nd phase of my All or Nothing way of eating. Only this time I’m going to make dates, berries, fruit and Larabars on the ‘nothing’ list… because my sense of moderation doesn’t work well and I’d really like to be able to curb the ‘need’ for evening snacking.</span><br />
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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-65218890231260952292013-03-21T10:31:00.003-07:002013-03-26T15:06:03.220-07:00When Salad is the King, the Dressing is the Crown<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So I eat a LOT of salad… one huge bowl every day for lunch. I’m not really much for chopping up ‘fixin’s’ for the salad so I go with a mixture of Kale Slaw and Organic Mixed Spring Greens from Costco… I used to like the Kale Slaw on it’s own but one day it just got really hard to choke down so now I mix it. I top my salad with two and a half baked chicken thighs (boneless skinless). </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’ve been eating this exact lunch since before the New Year and the only reason I don’t want to whip the bowl off the 5th floor deck and go get a cheeseburger is because of the dressing. When I started the W30, I knew I had to figure out a new salad dressing and quick because the one I’d been eating has every disallowed thing in it that they could jam in there… sugar, soy lecithin, dairy, chemicals!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’ve since made both the following dressings successfully and so much so that people LOOKING at my lunch have requested the recipe. I imagine since they see my lunch every day also, that they must think it’s some sort of magic that keeps me interested every day. It is.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">First up is a creation all my own.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I call it Toasted Walnut Bliss Dressing. People have asked if it has cheese in it or anchovies or if it’s Caesar salad dressing. The answer to all those is no, but with a taste profile like that, how can it be anything but great?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><u><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Toasted Walnut Bliss Dressing</span></u><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #3d85c6;"></span></span><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1 cup of toasted walnuts </span><br />
<span style="color: #3d85c6; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Splash of Balsamic vinegar (or whatever vinegar you have on hand… sherry, redwine, rice)</span><br />
<span style="color: #3d85c6; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1tbsp whole grain Dijon mustard (check for W30)</span><br />
<span style="color: #3d85c6; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">½-1 tbsp minced garlic</span><br />
<span style="color: #3d85c6; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Juice of a whole lemon or lime… I’ve done both and both are great!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Salt/Pepper to taste</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #3d85c6;"></span></span><span style="color: #3d85c6; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Load the first five ingredients into the magic bullet or blender. You’ll use the olive oil and water to thin the mixture to your desired consistency. I usually start with about a ¼ cup of olive oil and if I need it thinner, then I add water and then EVOO in equal parts until I’m happy.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This lasts in a mason jar in the fridge for at least a week (I use it all up in a week so I can’t say it’s staying power past that but there’s nothing in there that should go bad).</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The second dressing that I have for you today is actually a repost from </span><a href="http://northwestcavegirls.com/2012/03/paleo-ranch-salad-dressing/"><span style="color: red; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Northwest Cave Girls</span></a><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">. They call it a Ranch dressing but I find it closer to a Lemon Dill dressing. I guess depending on your amounts of seasonings you can make it more or less dilly as you like.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1 cup Coconut Milk (use canned to get the thicker texture or use coconut cream mixed with coconut milk)</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1 Tbs apple cider vinegar</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1 Tbs prepared dijon mustard</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2 tsp Dill</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2 tsp Garlic Powder</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1 tsp Onion Powder</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1 tsp Chives</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">4 Tbsp Lemon Juice</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1/2 tsp Parsley</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1/2 tsp Thyme</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1/2 tsp Sea Salt (to taste)</span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1/2 tsp pepper (to taste)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There you have it. Two amazing Paleo approved, W30 approved and yummy approved salad dressings to keep you interested all week long!</span>P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-79242675582912812172013-03-18T08:45:00.000-07:002013-03-18T08:45:53.243-07:00This is not Zero<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Good morning!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s absolutely GORGEOUS outside today! There’s fresh snow (hopefully some of the last!) on the mountains, the sun is shining brightly and the blue sky is dotted with just a few fluffy clouds!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I got up at 451am this morning, put my previously layed out gym clothes on and marched myself down to my car. It took 4 min to drive to the gym and park… when I got in there my scan tag wouldn’t work, which was annoying since it was only set up a week ago… the girl said it was never applied to my name… anyway, got that all fixed up and then I worked out. At 5 in the morning. I can’t say that it was the best workout I’ve ever had (obviously) and I wanted to puke halfway through it but I did it.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I didn’t take it too easy on myself either, which is what I was planning to do… I climbed 15 flights of stairs in 5 min (and then I couldn’t take anymore of that machine! Planning on doing it every day to get better at it… My first goal is to get to my old Climb the Wall time of 49 flights in 11 min)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I did 20 min on the elliptical but have no stats for that because I accidentally restarted the workout with 5 min to go and then I did 20 min on the treadmill and even ran for a short portion of it!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The biggest thing that I learned today is that if I can get my mind on my side, I can pretty much do anything I want. I was telling my sister last night that I was annoyed because I didn’t like having to start back at zero after having been away for so long. This morning that was bugging me too until I realized that zero is sleeping past my alarm, telling myself I can’t because I’m too tired or scared or whatever… being in the gym at 5am and sweating is not zero in my book!</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Last night before I went to sleep I asked God for rest and relaxation for the night… to put my mind at rest and quiet the nervous energy. I asked for mental strength to propel myself out of bed when my alarm went off and strength to put aside all the negative self talk that I can use to derail myself.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I was duly blessed by an excellent night sleep and the energy and strength to climb out of bed with no thought of ‘starting tomorrow’. It is a lesson I continue to learn; that putting your faith and trust in God is the only way. That when you’re following God’s plan, you’re given the strength and endurance to get it done for He wouldn’t ask you to follow His plan without the tools to do so.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Every day may be a battle for the next little while but it’s not a battle I have to fight alone!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’m breaking up with knitting.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Yup… you heard it here first.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’ve found myself not knitting very much lately and instead of letting it just gradually slide away, I thought it would be better to look at it, figure out why and then put a proper closure to it.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">If you’re not a knitter and/or you don’t know me very well, it would seem kind of crazy why I feel the need to forensically identify why I’ve not been knitting lately. I get that. If you are a knitter and/or you do know me, this may make a little bit more sense to you.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">You see, I’ve been knitting non stop for almost four years to the day. March 23rd, 2009 was the birth of what can only be considered an obsession. Knitting was with me and on me everywhere I went. I’ve compiled a ludacris collection of handknits that I may never see enough cold weather in this life time to wear. I have items that went directly in to my heirloom knitting box to be saved… for what I’m not sure… but they are works of art in every sense of the word. I have items I made with yarn purchased on holiday, on a whim and on a bad day. I’ve spent HOURS scouring Ravelry for patterns, projects and inspiration. I’ve knit things for a selected few other people and taken great pleasure in seeing them in action! </span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So what’s changed? Well me of course.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Knitting was around when my life was falling apart… when I wanted nothing more to than to run as far away as I could (which ended up being the coffee shop down the street). Knitting was around when everything came crashing down around me. It was around when I was picking up the pieces and when I thought I was ‘better’. Then it was there when I wasn’t ‘better’ at all. I spent many a lovely cozy day with my knitting… slowly building up a wool armor around myself. Every stitch was a piece of protection that kept me safe. My sister once said that she liked wearing my handknits when she was having a bad sad or difficult day because it felt like she was wrapped in my love and protection. And that’s what I was doing for myself. Knitting was a shield I used to protect me from the outside world and in part, myself. I received what can only be considered superficial attention from my finished handknits and knitting in public.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">But now I feel like exposing myself a little bit… taking down the walls stitch by stitch (oh don’t get crazy, I’m not unraveling all my finished knitting!). For the first time in years I feel like I can stand up, on my own two feet without being draped/wrapped or smothered in handknits. It’s an interestingly unique feeling. Like going outside in spring without a jacket on. A bit scary but surprisingly ok.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So, because I relied on knitting as somewhat of a crutch, I need to take a purposeful break from it. I need it to sit in the background and be less important than it once was. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I can already tell you without a bit of doubt that I will miss it and that I will come back to it in time. My life is in a state of transformation and knitting has to transform too. What I want to do is come back to it when I’ve reached a goal I’ve set for myself and knit a sweater. I want knitting to be purposeful when I come back to it. The sheer volume of items that I have knit in the last four years speaks to the incredible pain I was trying to heal. When next I pick up my knitting I want it to reflect who I am transforming to become… Purposeful, driven and focussed. We can’t stay friends if we both don’t change so knitting is going to go away for a while.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s pretty freeing to have scrutinized this and then written it out… Tonight I’m going to put everything away… All neat and tidy like so when it’s time to reunite, it will be a calm and orderly reintroduction.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"></span>P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-63889011647304625532013-03-11T13:23:00.000-07:002013-03-11T13:23:34.346-07:00Perfect Whole30 Frittata<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I think I’ve finally managed to perfect my Whole30 Breakfast Frittata.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’m on week 3 now and don’t forsee giving up this way of Eating at the end of 30 days. Which means, more frittata!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I got the original recipe from my sister who sent it to me from <a href="http://hollywouldifshecould.net/2013/01/ground-beef-spinach-egg-casserole/">here</a> but I’ve changed it a fair bit and no offense to her, but I like mine better! Plus it has way more veggies and anyone doing W30 knows that the world revolves around veggies.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1 red pepper, chopped</span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2 cups sliced mushrooms</span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">** The nutmeg seems weird but be sure to add it in… it does something lovely to the spinach without making the whole dish taste weird. For the full Costco bag of spinach, I add around ½ -3/4 of a teaspoon.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">First, sauté the pepper, onion, celery and garlic in coconut oil until the veg are partially cooked. Set aside and sauté mushrooms until they are cooked through and then set aside with other veg.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Sauté sausage until cooked through. Sprinkle with seasonings (I’m pretty generous) and then add in half the bag of spinach, mix around and put a lid on… you’re trying to wilt the spinach and incorporate it into the sausage. Once you have room in the pan, add the rest of the spinach and wilt down until incorporated. Pour sausage/spinach mixture into bottom of greased (with CO) 9x13 baking dish. Add sauted vegetables.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Crack 12 eggs into a bowl and add one small can of tomato paste. Whisk to incorporate and then pour into baking dish. Slice roma tomatoes and lay on top.</span><br />
<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Cook in 350 oven covered with foil for 30 min and then remove the foil and allow to continue baking until egg is set.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #741b47; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I cut it into eight pieces and serve for breakfast with ¼ avocado and a handful of cherry tomatoes.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">NB: Normally I would put salt and pepper in, but it’s better to season per serving because it’s very easy to make it too salty if you’re not sure of how your sausage will cook up. (ask me how I know!)</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Other variations include using ‘turkey stuffing seasonings’ and a turkey sausage (or ground turkey meat) and then leaving out the tin of tomato paste.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’ve talked about all of them so far except for the last one.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I guess it would be good for ‘ratings’ to say that I stood in my living room one day and screamed to the Heavens ‘Why God have You abandoned me?’. ‘Why have You left me here to suffer this alone… I don’t know how to fix this!’</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">There’s no such story. Because, in fact it should have been God standing in my living room and asking ME ‘Why have you forgotten about Me? I can help you if only you’ll ask You don’t have to go through this alone’. I can’t say for sure that that didn’t happen… that in the years of struggle He didn’t come to me and offer to put an end to my suffering… to save me from what my life had become. I certainly was in no place to hear it, for I was so busy trying to fix everything myself.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I remember having conversations (multitudes) with my friends and saying ‘I don’t know what else to do. I’ve tried everything’ and then consistently listing off all the things I tried to do to fix the relationship, to make him respect me, to stop the manipulative and abusive behavior. I can still feel it now, the feeling I had during those conversations. It was like I was standing still in a vortex of insanity… everything I ‘tried’ swirling around me, too fast to catch… too messy to make sense out of. I don’t know what else to do… I don’t know what else to do… That thought went around and around me in a never ending spiral of grief and frustration. I can still feel the anxiety now when I recall those moments… and then the creeping thought that maybe I deserved this. Maybe I WASN’T fun… maybe I WAS a bitch… maybe I WASN’T a good housekeeper, cook, laundry doer, friend…PERSON!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I spent so many years, before that relationship and then during it thinking I had it all figured out… and then thinking I had to get it all figured out. I lied to my friends about my life at home… even my family doesn’t know the half of what went on…</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I look back on it now and I can see that I COULD have saved myself… I could have just asked God for help. Those moments of desperation… of really being at the lowest low… feeling like I was going crazy and there was nothing left to try… there was always one more thing to try… </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Every day is a new day and somewhere on my Christmas holidays I felt moved… things weren’t working, the year was ending and I was still seemingly stuck in a place I didn’t want to be… unhealthy, not really happy and with no prospect of massive change on the horizon…</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I prayed that night. And as I prayed I felt a huge weight lift off me. It was such a feeling of renewal and peace that I wondered if I prayed again the next night would I feel the same thing… I did. Every time I spoke to God it felt as though my burden was being lifted. It all sounds so very cliché to me too… these are the things that you hear televangelists screaming into a microphone at crowds of thousands. ‘GOD WILL EASE YOUR BURDENS’. Well it’s hard to understand that as a young woman who’s never had burdens.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’ve been a Christian all my life and I don’t recall ever feeling the weight of burden before… Back in the ‘good old days’ I prayed all the time… I thought I knew what it was supposed to feel like… But this… this was different. This commune with God was something I’d never felt before. This lightening of my load was something new… I’ve been down a long and steep road and picked up an awful lot of really ugly, dirty, unhealthy and sad burden on the way. Burden that previously in my life I’d never had to carry before. It crushed me… It filled my lungs with smoke and pulled at my muscles like hot irons. And man the moment I didn’t have to carry it alone anymore I realized just how heavy it really was… how back breaking and spirit crushing. And until that moment at Christmas I never thought that I would get the chance to stop carrying it. How amazing that I could just hand it off and be free! </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I consider that time in my life a blessing now… I didn’t know just how terrible life could be… how desolate and lonely and painful… but the other thing I didn’t know was just how free and peaceful it could be. How much I didn’t have to depend only on myself to manage my life. I didn’t have to live in the pain for one more second… everything was new and clean again.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Every night I get excited to go to bed… for altho it’s not the only place; bed is where I pray. I ask for guidance, hand off my burden and feel peaceful at bedtime. Every night is not easy… my old habits get in the way and my mind wanders… trying to figure out my problems myself… So sometimes my prayer is to be reminded that I’m not in this alone anymore and I don’t have to figure it out myself.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My whole life is changing at a breakneck speed right now… I have a strength and willpower now I didn’t know I had. I have peace and harmony within my own mind and body that I honestly thought I would never have again. (if I ever had it in the first place). I feel like I’m rebuilding my life on solid ground where once I stood in quick sand. It’s a powerful feeling and I just could not help but write about it here.</span><br />
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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-61951511069176797872013-03-01T12:09:00.003-08:002013-03-01T12:10:48.955-08:00Six Days Down<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Today is my 6th day on Whole30.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">1. I keep thinking I must be cheating on this because everything I’ve made so far tastes so good and doesn’t need the added dairy or sugar. As I’d already been pretty strict about grain, there hasn’t been much of a change there. I cooked last Saturday and Sunday and made my breakfasts, lunch fixings and dinners so that I didn’t have to cook at all this week. I didn’t mind eating the same thing every day altho dinner got a bit boring, but I have a plan to combat that next week.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">2. I have food cravings in the evenings. I can’t even really say it’s a sugar craving… it’s more of a ‘food in my mouth’ craving. I’ve been drinking a lot of tea to stay hydrated and interested and when the craving pops up (more of a habit than a craving… it’s all mental) I ask myself if I’m hungry. The answer is predictably no, so that’s the end of that mental conversation.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">3. My sleep has improved. I’ve always been a good sleeper but often would be dog tired when I finally went to bed and wake up tired and a bit crabby. Now at 9pm I turn the tv off and get started on my bedtime routine that includes face washing, teeth brushing, cat duties, sometimes a bath and then into bed. I find that I’m still alert and cognitively functioning when I crawl into bed but sleep comes easily and is deep and lasting. I wake up at 7am in the morning and feel alert and ready for the day (except this morning but I think I over did it on Valarian tea last night).</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">4. My digestion has gotten better. I haven’t had a stomach ache or bloating or gas in days.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">6. I’m a lot calmer. I think this can be attributed in large part to having my food planned and prepped for the week so I don’t’ have to spend valuable week night time on cooking, but I also feel more calm and peaceful. Every day right after work I put my pajamas on and sit on the living room floor to play with the kitty. Because I don't have to do much in the way of cooking or cleaning because it’s taken care of on the weekend, I really look forward to and enjoy the time that I get to spend with the little fuzz ball. It’s probably about 20 min of playing and he makes me laugh. He seems happier because of the extra focused play time and we’ve invented two new games this week that he really seems to enjoy.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Those are all the things that I’ve noticed thus far. I know it seems weird to attribute a happier cat and a better kitty/human relationship to W30 but as they say all over the website and in the book, W30 is about changing your lifestyle. The planning and prep time that I invest on the weekends is something I never did before and now I’m realizing the benefits of it. It’s also given me cause to think that my easy wake up at 7 could probably be pushed to a bit earlier and some excerise could be scheduled in to the am. I’ve always been an AM workout person and I used to really enjoy it so I’m going to expect to start that soon and see if I can make AM workouts fit in my life again.</span><br />
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Why is today different then? Well I wanted to share what I’ve started. Back in around August of last year I gave up wheat and grains along with junk food in order to see if it helped clear up my skin condition and help me feel better. It did… by leaps and bounds! I was very good with it for a while and then started letting things like potato chips and ice cream back in…It’s taken me almost this long to realize that I’m an all or nothing kind of person… as in eat ALL the chips or none… Knowing that, I decided that the best way to start fresh was to do a cleanse… so I looked online and all the ones I found went against everything that I believe. Take pills, drink juice, starve yourself. None of those things felt like the right way to go and then I remembered Whole30.<br />
It’s not exactly a cleanse in the strict sense of the internet word… but the idea is that you remove all sugar (even the hidden ones and the ones that disguise themselves using other names), all dairy, all chemicals and all grains, legumes, corn and soy.<br />
You don’t get to weigh or measure yourself for the 30 days, which is okay with me and besides, my scale is out of batteries. I, like a great many people I know who have done this, am more interested in the non-measurable results. Will my skin clear up. Will I sleep better… will my digestive system stop hating me and doing mean things to punish me. Will I want to adopt this as a way of life going forward. Those are the things I’m looking forward to. If my pants fit better at the end, then that’s a bonus. <br />
Anyway, today is day 2. I know a lot of people document and photograph their food for the duration of their W30… I’m not that person. But I am committed to this and I am going to go the whole 30 days… no cheats, no whining, no complaining. Because I think I owe this to myself… My life is changing in so many ways at what feels like a breakneck pace and what better time than in the depths of change to make depths of change?<br />
I was going to say wish me luck, but I don’t need luck. I guess if you want to wish me something… wish success...<br />
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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-35555376108636679532013-01-14T14:30:00.000-08:002013-01-14T14:38:55.820-08:00PURGESo last week when I wrote about throwing things away and rearranging furniture to better suit the function I need from my house, I went straight home and did it. I cleaned out three drawers, made room for my napkins (which will hopefully be here today) and then I rearranged the dining area to accommodate the new dining bench. Let me tell you, it’s been a completely life changing moment!<br />
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I haven’t had a proper table and chairs to eat at in about 13 years. I’ve had various substitute set ups that were less than desirable and I always ended up just sitting on the sofa.<br />
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Eating at a proper height dining table with both my feet on the floor has made such a huge impact on my life in this short time I can’t even tell you!<br />
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There’s a new rule in my house which consists entirely of the notion that no food shall be consumed elsewhere than the dining table. There is no more sofa sitting and eating.<br />
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Meal time is now defined. I still watch TV while I eat and that’s something that I would eventually like to change also, but for now, this is working.<br />
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Because I’m eating at a table with a place mat and a proper table setting, I’m more likely to want to eat a proper meal that consists of sides or a salad. I eat less because I eat slower and even though I am still watching TV, I’m able to concentrate more on what I’m eating. Eating dinner (because lunch and breakfast are consumed at work) takes longer but when I’m done I feel content and I take my dishes into the kitchen and clean up dinner straight away.<br />
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All these things may seem like normal every day fare to some and it is, but for me, it’s a completely new lifestyle! I love it!<br />
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With the idea in mind that change is good, I changed a few more things around my house this weekend. I rearranged some of the other furniture to function better and I put some items for sale on Craigslist as well. One of the items sold and while I’m glad to be rid of it and have the cash instead, I could have done without the buyers lingering in my apartment and making me feel awkward for wanting them to leave.<br />
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The small changes that I made to my house have lightened my spirit (which I actually didn’t know needed lightening) and made me feel even more at home in my home. I have a very full next three months coming up that include 99 hours of volunteer training, a friend coming from out of town and some other things planned that will take up time, so the more organized and functional my house is, the better!<br />
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I also did one other thing that made me feel better about the clutter in my life. I deleted a bunch of people off my Twitter feed that did nothing but serve to irritate me. I realize that Twitter is a mechanism for attention seeking at its worst and we’re all obviously guilty of putting 140 characters of ‘hey, look at me’ out there, but there’s that and then there’s the length many people go to get attention. For example:<br />
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I can’t decide if I want a piece of cheese or not<br />
My sister emailed me a baby picture<br />
I’m going to have quiche for dinner<br />
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I mean seriously! It’s not necessary to publish every thought that runs through your head. The sort of attention one receives for having verbal diarrhea is superficial and unnecessary. Keep a few things to yourself.. it’s not necessary to describe your bowel movements due to your dairy allergy on the internet… it’s just not! <br />
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Now, I’m, of course, not suggesting people change to suit me. If you’re immature, you’re immature and that’s fine, you’re the one that has to live your life. I don’t care about your moral cheese dilemma and I find it a bit insulting that people who write this type of nonsense obviously think their followers SHOULD care… That said, I went through the list of people that I follow and it’s now a much shorter, but a more mature, reasonable selection of nonsense! <br />
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It’s amazing what getting rid of a bit of irritation does for the mindset.<br />
I’m off to Costco tonight to see about getting my deep freeze delivered and maybe a passport photo taken and then it’s home to make Mexican Pasta Sauce (this being chili without the beans) and go to bed early before my first day of being out of the house at 7:20 and not back again until close to 11.<br />
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<br />P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-17879217431639153522013-01-07T15:27:00.000-08:002013-01-07T15:27:50.964-08:00All over the place<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I have an incredible urge to throw things away!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In fact, as I’m thinking about it right now, I already know which drawer I’m going to start with and I know I will be doing it almost the second I get home.</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I squandered the last bit of my holidays away playing with Mr. Fluffypants and watching television. I was trying to keep a cold at bay so on Friday I took the day off and slept most of it. Saturday and Sunday were both uneventful (except getting evacuated from Costco on Sunday afternoon… but that was barely an event!).</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’ve been doing very well in the past little while with ensuring that I cook and prepare all my own meals. I ate grain twice over the Christmas Holiday. Once on December 21 when I ate a piece of custom made birthday cake. It was a chocolate lazy dazy cake in which you use coffee for the liquid and it was covered in whipped peanut butter icing and garnish of more chocolate and peanut butter.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">And then I ate two bites of stuffing on Christmas day because Janet makes the Canaday/Janzen stuffing recipe and it’s kind of kryptonite. I will say that I suffered IMMENSELY after both those indulgences… which relegated them right outside the indulgence category… </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">ANYWAY… One of my Journey Plan items is to continue to not eat grains of any sort, no legumes, no really starchy veg and a meagre amount of dairy. So far it’s working out great! I’ve been filling my freezer (soon to be deep freeze if I can figure out a way to get the effer home from Costco!) with home cooked grain free meals so that when I start into my 99 hours of training next Tuesday I’ll have good things to eat.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">That said, I’m feeling in a very purgey way right now. I want to throw everything in my house away! Obviously I’m not going to but there are some areas that won’t be spared. The impetus for it was really a purchase I made on Etsy. Another one of my Journey Plan items is to continue to try and make as little impact on the planet as I can, while still remaining sane and not <del> wasting </del> spending all my time on worrying about it. One of the ways to do that is cloth napkins. Now, I’m sure you can go to the store and purchase some really heinous cloth napkins at Winners or Canadian Tire. But, always one for wanting something interesting and unique, I bought myself a set of four screen printed napkins from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/ohlittlerabbit">THIS ETSY VENDOR</a> </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In fact, the ACTUAL ones I bought are pictured below.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The other thing that I’m really itching to do is figure something out for my dining room. I love my dining room. When I first moved I repurposed a small loveseat to function as banquette seating on one side and two antique chairs on the other side. It looks great! The problem is that the sofa is far too low and you can literally scoop food from off the table into your mouth… no lifting necessary. It’s funny at first but it makes your stomach hurt, and it’s hard to get in and out of with the table so close. Cat toys go under there to die on a very frequent basis, which means I have to pull the two chairs, table and sofa out to rescue them for the whining machine!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So I’d like to do either two nice chairs that I can refinish and recover, or, ideally, because I like the banquette idea, I’d like to do this. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Thanks for the great idea pinterest! And if that doesn’t work, I’m considering trying to find some legs and making just the bench portion. In the scheme of things, that would work best with the way the room is designed and where the drapes are anyway!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So I went looking online just now for dining benches… and then it hit me! I have a 4’ wide incredibly sturdy coffee table that is currently the holder of stuff in my bedroom until I get a dresser! When I first got it I had them cut quite a few inches off of it, which I’m sorely regretting now, but if it’s pretty close to 18”, I should be able to shore it up with some layers of mdf or plywood and then make the bench cushion for it! The stain on the coffee table matches the chairs and I have plenty of the sofa fabric left to cover the bench!</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /><span style="color: #134f5c;"></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’m pretty happy right now because it means that my lost creative mojo (which I lost about three weeks before Christmas) seems to be coming back. Maybe I’ll even knit a little tonight, once I’ve thrown out a bunch of stuff and measured my bench (and let’s be realistic, moved the bench to the dining room, moved the sofa to the bedroom, rearranged the bedroom because the sofa won’t fit otherwise and then cleaned the whole place! Good thing dinner is in the crockpot as we speak!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I can feel a change coming… I can feel it scratching just inside my consciousness… just inside my soul… scratching to get out… twisting things in and out and up and down in an effort to alert my conscious self to its existence… </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It seems like an odd time to be having this feeling of metamorphosis… it’s not Back to School, it’s not yet New Year’s… it’s certainly not spring… all the times that are generally the seasons of change… and yet here I am… feeling the itch to move along down the road of life. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’ve been listening to the voice… to the scratching… to the incessant rubbing on my psyche like a burr under a saddle…. And it’s got a message.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Is it weird that the scratching is a Dr. Seuss quote? Maybe. I’m okay with that.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I feel as tho I am moving into the next incarnation of who I am meant to be. And the scratching is telling me to embrace it.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The voice in my heart is telling me that who I am is okay.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s okay to be an introvert. So the world thinks I’m an extrovert…outgoing, social and brave. I’m not. I prefer my alone time to a group of people. I don’t like loud noises or overwhelming sounds. I’m habitual to a fault and I’d rather have a scant handful of close friends than a gymnasium full of people that I only sort of know… And it’s okay to be honest with myself that I’m am a more reserved person… and I don’t necessarily always have to be a pretend extrovert… sure it’s helpful in certain situations but the more situations in which I am honest with myself, the better.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s okay to love yourself regardless of body shape. This is not to say that it’s not a positive endeavor to do what I can to be the most healthy I can be. What it does say is that it’s not okay to withhold self-love until I reach a goal. My grandparents have shown in the past that they value us more as people when we are housed in a thin frame. If it’s not okay for someone else to treat me like that, then it can’t be okay to treat myself like that. Maybe that’s the missing piece… maybe that’s the thought that I will finally derive success from… I am me… Can I be a better me? Sure! In all aspects… life is about self improvement and moving forward no matter what. But waiting until I am a ‘better’ me to like myself is just not okay.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It’s okay to want change. It’s okay to honor who I have been in years past and yet not want to be that person anymore. It’s okay to want to take my life in an alternate direction… even if I don’t know what that direction is exactly… It brings to mind a quote that was sent to me last year… </span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I’ve committed my time, energy and talents to something new starting in January. I’m both nervous and excited and I’m looking so forward to putting myself out there… using my mind and my self to help others. I think to do this, I need to be an honest version of myself and while that is ever a work in progress, I need to at least be on the road there… </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So I’m going to end this year… all seven weeks of it listening to the voice in my soul that is saying that I can embrace the new and better me that is itching to get out….</span><br />
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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-85578316191200174712012-10-15T11:59:00.001-07:002012-10-15T12:01:39.714-07:00No Guilt<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This past year I've been working really hard on getting my ducks in a row and one of the things that I did somewhat subconsciously was to do a lot of the knitting I've done this year from yarn I already own. In the knitting community this is referred to as Knitting from Stash. I consider 'Stash' to be any yarn that is either a year or so old, or yarn that was purchased with no particular project in mind. That being said, I have a fair amount of 'stash' but it's tiny comparatively speaking. But since what I have isn't being compared to what others have, I decided that since I only buy what I love and I bought the yarn in my stash, I must love it and therefore want to knit it up.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">I've knit pretty close to 10,000 yards of yarn this year (and we're not done yet). That's equal to about 9 KM or 6 miles. I've been reasonably diligent, mostly in the back half of the year. The first half of the year saw me knit about 2600 yards in new purpose purchased yarn, which is great! I knit a sweater and a shawl that make up about 2/3 of that total.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">The rest was knit with yarn that was purchased over a year ago... I'm still working on knitting with yarn I already own... but this weekend was the big fibre festival and my stash needed a little enhancement.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">So part of my purchases this weekend included wool to spin my own yarn. I'm not interested in spinning enough for a sweater or anything so I bought little bits that I can use to hone my skills and then knit mitts or use for trim on a shawl.</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">The top three were purchased from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/caliopesfibre">Caliope's Fibre</a> (spelled the Canadian way because she, and I, are Canadian!)</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">These are three layered batts with a base of wool and then sparkles and noils and everything lovely sandwiched in. These are likely not 'practice' pieces as I'd like to get some good looking yarn out of them. The fourth picture is a Shetland batt with some colorful silk threads added in. I bought it from<a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/EverythingOldCrafts?ref=ss_profile"> Everything Old</a>. Both ladies were very charming and talented!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The first one that I bought was a skein of <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/littleredbicycle?ref=ss_profile">Little Red Bicycle</a>. I'd seen her stuff on Ravelry and some friends of mine have had some and knit with it so it was one of those 'yarn fan' purchases... don't need to have it, but want some of her stuff. I bought a OOAK (one of a kind) skein too that was the most dark plum color it is almost black and for obvious reasons didn't photograph it... </span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The next two skeins I bought were one each from Caliope and Everything Old. Caliope's is a self striping handspun yarn that is one stripe of a soft mint green/soft yellow bamboo and then one stripe of a crazier ribbony multi fibre... I don't know what to do with it yet because I have to swatch (*gasp*) to see how the stripes work out. The one I bought from Everything Old is a 100% BFL in a colorway called Film Noir. It was one of the reasons I went back to the show the second day. It's mostly gray with some red splashes thrown in and I think it will look amazing as a pair of mittens. It's a bit washed out in this photo but it's gorgeous in real life!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I also bought a skein of yarn that was dyed by local dyer Sweet Georgia, specifically for the show. The colorway is gorgeous and it actually screams Vancouver to me... </span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">Here it's shown wound into a ball (half a ball) and then knit into a partial mitt. Unfortunately I have to rip that mitt out and reknit it on a bigger needle. The fabric is gorgeous but a little bullet proof for mittens... Plus, on those small needles, the row gauge is off and they're going to be pretty short!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">In that top picture of everything together there's also a cute little owl hat and some colored sticks... the colored sticks are actually colored pencils with felt balls on top. My plan is to use them as shawl pins altho in trying this morning, it is clear that the tips need a little sandpaper... they're a bit rough for soft wool!</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">The hat was a bit of a lark... I was playing around trying it on and the artist was trying to convince me to buy it (for $30, which is perfectly reasonable for a hand knit wool hat). I wanted to I told her but I only had $10 cash dollars left... and that's when she said she'd take my ten bux and I could have the hat because she wanted it to go to a loving home! I love the owl hat... he needs a bath because some jerk spilled coffee on him right before I bought him but I can wash that out no problem.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">That's pretty much the extent of my weekend... I'm hoping to make connection with someone I know that will teach me how to use my spinning wheel and then I will press my Mickey Mouse apron in to service and start spinning! (apron because otherwise you end up covered in wool).</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">I have no guilt about how much I bought at all! Also, someone (wise) mentioned that 'souvenier yarn doesn't count' so there's that too!</span>P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-30275338295208247942012-10-12T11:40:00.003-07:002012-10-12T11:41:33.805-07:00Well then...<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Fall has arrived... and by 'fall' I mean the part of fall that feels like winter here in Vancouver and it's started to rain. I'm told that the rain won't last for long and that we're to have a mild, dry winter. Let's hope so because it's raining today for the first day in months and I don't like it!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">Last night I made spicy meatballs in a soup-ish sauce and Curry Fish Stew... Normally when I come on here and say that I made things, I share the recipe and gloat a little bit that while I don't enjoy cooking and I'm not all that 'cheffy', I can come up with some pretty yummy things with nary a cookbook in sight.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">I will suffice it to say that I was not entirely successful last night and there are some inedible things in the house right now that I'm hoping Mr. Fluffypants takes upon himself to dispose of while I'm at work (I'm sure I'll be disappointed and he'll just snooze on the bed until I get home to take care of it!)</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">So, since it's fall and my apartment doesn't have any heat, and after spending a few nights on the sofa, looking like this,</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Last weekend was Thanksgiving here in Canada. Normally a huge dinner is had with family and friends but that's not quite how it worked out for me this year, altho I'm certainly not complaining!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">She worked on cleaning up a mess we made last time we were there and I worked on making myself a wreath for my door. Back in my younger days I made quite a few wreaths... Most of them have been given away so I thought it would be nice for my door to have a seasonal decoration. The neighbors I've spoken to have really really liked it and I think it's been well received. Except for the crazy guy that lives upstairs that makes rude face and hand gestures toward it everytime he walks by..</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">On Sunday evening, the more popular day for the big Thanksgiving Feast, I made salt and pepper chicken wings and sliced tomatoes with bacon seasalt. I was cozied up on the sofa with my knitting and my kitty and some tea. Not a bad way to spend Thanksgiving. I felt very thankful!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Last weekend I started and finished a little hat out of scraps for myself. It was touch and go for a few minutes and I think at one point I was actually just knitting the idea of yarn and not actual yarn, but in the end it turned out cute...</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">It's a sock monkey 'inspired' hat but I've been told it would be more effective with a pompom. Since the only thing I have left from the scraps is the yarn fumes, there will be no pom pom... maybe next time.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">After I finished this last item a week ago, the only thing I could think of to knit was another one in a different yarn. I tried everything to find a new project, but the only way around being obsessed with something is through it, so I went and got myself a little ball of sunshine and started knitting. I wish it was done today... all this rain already and I need a little sunshine wrapped around my neck!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">The other thing I'm making is my Christmas Hat. Normally I make myself a Birthday hat every year but I'm probably going to be pretty busy around that time this year, so I figured I'd take a different route.</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">I had to start early because it's tiny yarn on tiny needles and it's going to take a while but I already love it!</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">You can see the yarn in the picture with the chicken wings and yes, it is sparkly. The yarn is woven with a strand of real sterling silver... very cool! The hat is going to be a double thickness and reversible... it'll be this glittery red on one side and on the other side i'm going to stripe in some cream so it is remeniscent of... a CANDY CANE! What better Christmas hat than that!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">And finally, altho it seems like 'no big deal', Charlie seems to be more interested in actual snuggling now... not lap snuggling, but normally he doesn't make much of an effort to touch me unless he's whapping me with his eagle talons.. so this is a big step! It could be because it's about -10 in the apartment... </span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">That's about it. I'm hoping to go to KnitCity this weekend with a friend but if she bails, I'll just go on my own... </span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;">For those of you in Vancouver (and surrounding area) who have not heard of it, this is Vancouver's very first Fibre Festival!</span><br />
<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial;"><a href="http://knitsocial.ca/knit-city/admission-and-event-information/">Here's the info!</a></span><br />
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<strong>Feel free to wander over to another blog that I contribute to with my <a href="http://www.fittyvsfatty.wordpress.com/" target="" title="Webby ~ By P'cess">sister</a>. It’s one that we both post to; pictures, recipes, anecdotes. Anything light and fun that maybe doesn’t quite fit on our regular blogs. Go see <a href="http://darcycanaday.wordpress.com/" target="_blank" title="Half A Pear">Half A Pear </a></strong>P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-76958802883107157082012-10-03T11:39:00.002-07:002012-10-03T11:40:28.630-07:00Squasha Sauce<div align="left">
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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-4646069844385199482012-09-19T09:41:00.001-07:002012-09-19T10:34:22.446-07:00Nesting and how there's more to life than food<div align="left">
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="132425915-19092012">I crossed off a LOT of things... Things like 'spend a week with Dad'... I crossed that off because even tho it hasn't happened yet, the plane ticket is booked. Things like 'Pay Tax Arrears by end of year', 'move to a 2 bedroom apartment', ... There are obviously a lot of things still left on the list and some which it is clear won't be completed by the end of the year. And that is OK. Some will be carried forward to next year, some will be evaluated for usefullness based on what I feel is going on next year and some will be ditched because they're either no longer a priority or they've changed, or they don't count now because something has changed (like buy a new bbq for bunker... no more bunker, no need for bbq).</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="325231116-18092012">Thank you to both my sister and my friend for the nice comments last night... I didn't eat a single one of those things... in fact I ate a roasted chicken breast with sundried tomatoes on it over a salad of mixed greens and a bit of avocado, tomato and mushrooms.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="325231116-18092012">I'm bored of putting stuff on salad... I'm bored of trying to think up things to make for dinner... I'm bored of smoothies for breakfast... altho every morning they are my favorite thing, I'm bored of making them and buying the ingredients for them and thinking about them.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="325231116-18092012">I know what I need to do... I need to nest... I need to pull out the crockpot and make things... Mexican Pasta Sauce (it's basically chili without the beans), chunky pasta sauce for pouring over squash. Cabbage roll soup and Curry Chicken Soup.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="325231116-18092012">I do not want to care... Not in the way that I don't care what I eat and how I feel... just that I don't want to give food so much attention. Giving it this much attention for me gives it an awful lot of power... and that power turns into obsession... </span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="325231116-18092012">I go back to that which I know... if food is easy, I stop caring about it in an active way. A bagel and cheddar cheese was the easiest meal I ever made. Not the best or most healthy, but I knew what I was having when I was on the bus on the way home, I knew it took little effort, it tasted good and when I was done, I was done. I believe I should be able to translate those requirements to actual food and putting a bunch of stuff in the freezer will be very helpful.</span></span></div>
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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-16606623487420823152012-09-17T14:40:00.001-07:002012-09-17T14:40:57.199-07:00Give me a CUPCAKE!<div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="043451418-17092012">Croissants, donuts, sandwiches... Tuna Noodle Casserole, Breaded Lemon Chicken and a giant pie, no cake... NO BOTH! for dessert... and by dessert, I mean whatever I eat right before I eat grilled cheese sandwiches and oreos until I puke...</span></span></div>
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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-32980382618009279292012-09-12T15:51:00.001-07:002012-09-12T15:51:13.492-07:00Whole(y) Cow!<div>
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<span class="121195921-12092012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It stands to reason... Canada's Food Guide suggests that you eat 6-7 servings of grains a day. What's a serving? Glad you asked. It's 1 cup of brown rice. So they're suggesting that you eat SEVEN CUPS of rice a day.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span class="085150117-10092012">Fall is layed back. Fall expects you to relax. Fall expects cool walks and bags of apples. It expects dusted off crockpots and hearty warm meals. It gives a few very warm days to remind you of Summer but without the expectation of removing almost all your clothes and laying out. It expects some lazy days in preparation for hibernation. Fall is a chilled out, calmed down version of Summer. I feel like it's the only season that only wants whatever is best for your mental health. Winter is harsh and while it has few expectations, it is a slave driver... it's a beast that pushes your limits. Spring has even higher expectations than Summer. After surviving the abuse of Winter, Spring expects you to come out of hibernation a new and refreshed being... and expects you to worship it's warmer weather and summer-like moments more than Summer.</span></span></div>
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<span class="213071418-31082012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Not as easy done as said my friends. There's this thing I like to call my Brain Baggage. It's a never ending loop of worries and responsibilities and expectations. It's also creative thoughts, ideas, plans, dreams, goals. Not all negative, but the result of carrying it all around at all times of the day (and night) is negative.</span></span></div>
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<span class="213071418-31082012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I don't stop thinking about it, and certainly, it goes everywhere with me. Work, home, the bathroom, bedtime... anywhere I am, my pack of baggage is. It's hard to relax when you're carrying that around. It's heavy and it constantly reminds you of it's presence. It strains your shoulders, burns your neck... your head and back ache from the strain of pretending that you don't have an elephant strapped to your back... to your mind.</span></span></div>
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<span class="213071418-31082012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">The answer then most definitely would be to set the damn pack down every once in a while and allow yourself to feel lighter wouldn't it? To stretch your arms and legs... your back and shoulders and see what just being feels like... without being suffocated and weighed down. Do you think if you set it down often enough, you could figure out how to pick less of it up every time. How to differenciate between what is essential, and what can be left in storage. </span></span></div>
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<span class="213071418-31082012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I often buy books... beautiful blank notebooks and then never write a spec in them. I find the blank pages to be refreshing and an inspiration. Perhaps I should let the book hold the brain baggage and let my mind be refreshing and an inspiration.</span></span></div>
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<span class="213071418-31082012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I've decided to commit to learning how to physically relax.. To putting down that Brain Baggage for a time... I don't relax. I don't ever ask my body to let go of what it's holding on to and rejeuvenate. I tried that last night... I've been having a terrible time sleeping... I can't get to sleep and then when I'm asleep I feel like I'm busy the whole time so when I wake up, I need a nap to recover from being so 'busy' all night and I think that it's not a great idea to have to take Gravol every night.</span></span></div>
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<span class="213071418-31082012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">My friend Kathleen suggested I download an app (there's an app for that!) that was a guided meditation... I did... it guided me through relaxing... from my tippy toes to the top of my head... Altho I guess you're supposed to end up in some sort of 'trance', my mind was still beebopping all over the place but I could feel my body relaxing. One thing at a time I told myself, so I allowed myself to just get what I could out of it, which was to feel my body relax. I didn't particularly care for her voice, so when that was done (30 min) I downloaded a different one. It was a male voice and I'm not sure if it was because I had also taken a half a Gravol, or because I was really relaxed, but I managed to fall asleep. Of course then I woke up, realized I'd been asleep, rejoiced a bit, took the headphones off, rolled over and then was WIDE AWAKE worrying about how I was going to fall back asleep.</span></span></div>
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<span class="213071418-31082012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I think putting my brain baggage in a book, setting down the pack every once in a while and learning how to breath and relax so as to give my body and mind a chance at relaxation will be immensely helpful. Maybe I'll still have to take a Gravol to go to sleep but I think that now that I have no toxins in my body, no toxins on my body, my mind deserves a break from all those toxins too.</span></span></div>
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<span class="213071418-31082012"><span style="color: #134f5c; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It's funny, this 'grain free' thing... When I committed to doing it, and found within days that it was a pleasant result, it started a snowball effect that continues on. It made me realize how good it felt to treat that one part of myself well... and it made me want to sort out other parts... even ones that I wasn't aware were bothering me... </span></span></div>
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P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-34994513014456151142012-08-21T14:02:00.002-07:002012-08-21T14:02:15.105-07:0030 Days and Nights<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So I made a commitment to spend 30 days grain and legume free. I add in 'legume free' because altho I don't eat beans much, I DO have an inappropriate love affair with peanut butter and apparently my bestfriend the Peanut is a legume. I'm hoping that one day, in moderation (LOL!) I can renew a reasonable relationship with peanut butter...</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">That being said, I am sincerely amazed at how life changing a measly 30 days has been. It jump started my mental process to a point that I was moving forward again. To a point that I was making decisions for myself based on my own health and wellbeing and not just the innate urge to survive.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I took an even bigger plunge when I decided that no toxic crap IN my body should be matched with no toxic crap ON my body... I've written about that already... The baking soda shampoo is over a week in and fabulous, the deodorant is fabulous, the Dr. Bronners body wash is fantastic... I also became obsessed with nail polish (which is fabulous but obviously not toxin free) and I blame my sister!</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I haven't seen a big change in the scale since I started, altho I didn't weigh myself until halfway in, so there's no way of knowing how much I weighed when I started. I did lose 4.6 pounds in 16 days, so that's not bad... assuming that I lost the same in the first 14 days.... I did go down two belt holes in the last 30 days, so that's saying something. I'm less concerned about my waist line tho than I am with feeling good. It's a very VERY weird thing to hear myself say because in the past, WEIGHT was the driving factor of feeling good... but that's not necessarily healthy... I don't feel obsessed with food like I've felt in the past when doing the Zone... I know a couple friends that had that 'obsessed with food' feeling on WW as well and it seems to be a non started for people doing grain/legume free... </span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">I will spend the next month documenting every morsel I put into my mouth in order to see what I'm actually eating... it made sense to me to eat this way and not be too worried about calories for the first 30 days... one can't have it all and since I couldn't have my old comfort foods, I figured that it was reasonable to eat until I was full and see what results that got me. Now I want to see WHAT I'm eating, in what quantities and how that relates to weight loss or gain.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">So here's to another 30 days and nights... I'll check back in about this on September 20th.</span></span></span>P'cesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05415797747259254688noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3638162773847650074.post-65686122522236900042012-08-20T18:05:00.002-07:002012-08-20T18:05:53.151-07:00The Way the Water Sparkles<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">I took today off of work... because I can... I cleaned my house last night and this morning woke up and had a lovely day with the kitty and my knitting and coffee. I also roasted 4 pork loins (two lime, two sundried tomato and rosemary) so I could slice them up and freeze them. My freezer is having a fit and trying to throw things out the door any time it opens, so I'm hoping I can slice up the loins and tetris them in there a bit better!</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">Tomorrow is my successful completion of 30 days grain free and I have to say that it's certainly not the end, altho the physical 'side effects' haven't been what I was expecting... More on that tomorrow.</span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #134f5c;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: small;">In the meantime, here's my new project that I'm working on. It's completely mindless and very fast knitting and I'm smitten... I dyed two of the three yarns (both the teal colors) and they're going perfectly with the silk/merino blend of the gray and blue one.</span></span></span><br />
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